Yet again I’ve been delinquent with updating my homepage, sorry. I just haven't really been up to it and it's been a busy week here at Ggum Guum.
"We’re all waiting for you to jump to the next guy” was a comment someone left on my to which I’d first like to ask, when have I ever jumped from guy to guy and you do know I am married, right? I’m not too sure about you but to me marriage is a sacred thing. Snickers is not my boyfriend, he is my husband, a label I take very seriously.
I learned a hard lesson once, when someone very close to me got married to someone whom many of us frowned at. It basically came down to the fact that if he is happy and in love than who are we to judge and who are we to tell him he doesn’t feel what he feels. If I really care for this person the way I think I do, then why would I want him to be anything but happy and in love?!
I know you don’t know me and I know you don’t honestly care whether or not I am happy, as proven by your personal attack on me, but you really have to stop and think why you'd even consider writing such a comment. I mean, the what of your comment isn't what got to me, it's the why. Why would someone totally disregard the fact that I am married. You really had some nerve to type it but you really should mind your manners and watch what you say. Your nonsense comment didn’t hit me the way I assume you had hoped it to. I feel sorry for you and I am sorry you are so unhappy that you have to crap on my homepage to make yourself feel better. It's like the whole school yard bully idea. Please tell me you're a middle school kid so that I can begin to understand why you'd ever want to push another person down. You are 13, right?
The silly bully at my high school proved to be nothing less than the most insecure and most unhappy of us all. Unhappy people don’t want other people to be happy, and that's what it basically comes down to it. Think what you'd like to think but please stop to think why you'd ever want to purposely knock someone down because in trying to pull another person down you've only discredited and lowered yourself.
I try to write honestly on my homepage, a relatively easy idea that at times isn't so easy and something that so many people don't do or don't respect. I know we all are entitled to our own personal opinions and ideas but please understand that behind these words on this homepage is a real person -- another idea that's easy to understand but so often disregarded. So when you write nasty comments please ask yourself first, if you were on the receiving end of such a comment how would you feel?
QUESTION OF THE DAY...
What ever happened to "Make love not war", did that fad out with the hippies or are we just a generation of angry therapy-needing people?
QUOTE OF THE DAY...
Most folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be.
-- Abraham Lincoln
As the story has it, one day I headed to the opposite side of the globe – the Flipside. I arrived in Korea February 16th, 2005 and thought I’d do a year, then leave. I was wrong. I stayed, launched my first company, Flipside Fitness, and then opened Korea's largest boxing club, Hulk's Boxing (now called Hulk's Club).
After 11.5yrs in Korea, I then picked up one day and returned to Toronto, Canada. But then I left again.
Now I live in the Philippines where I am the CEO and head coach of Empowered Clubhouse, the Philippines' first and only boxing clubhouse exclusively just for women. I also am the founder of the Lil' Sistas Project, CEO and designer of Slay Gear and Baa Baa Black Sheep .Ph.
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3 comments:
don't pay attention to the haters. i'm sure they're just jealous.
can i ask what Ggum Guum means? the closest thing i could figure out was "dream palace," but that would be "ggum gung..."
Amyyy you're great. Totally support you on all the things you said ;)
Fabi
Hi Anonymous,
Thank you. I can't hate the haters though or that'd make me a hater, too. Haters make me famous... hahaha.
As for Ggum Guum, I think I've actually switched it accidently awhile back. It translates to "gold dream" but because I accidently switched it, it now translates to, well obviously, "dream gold". Both translates are very suiting though to what this house means to us and what life has become for both of us.
Hey Fabi,
Thanks girl... you're pretty awesome too.
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