As the story has it, one day I headed to the opposite side of the globe – the Flipside. I arrived in Korea February 16th, 2005 and thought I’d do a year, then leave. I was wrong. I stayed, launched my first company, Flipside Fitness, and then opened Korea's largest boxing club, Hulk's Boxing (now called Hulk's Club).

After 11.5yrs in Korea, I then picked up one day and returned to Toronto, Canada. But then I left again.

Now I live in the Philippines where I am the CEO and head coach of Empowered Clubhouse, the Philippines' first and only boxing clubhouse exclusively just for women. I also am the founder of the Lil' Sistas Project, CEO and designer of Slay Gear and Baa Baa Black Sheep .Ph.

Saturday, February 09, 2019

Game On... Saturday, February 9

Today was the day, the day people finally stop asking me if I'm excited or ready for the "big game" -- my first full contact 15's rugby game.  I suppose now they'll start asking me if I enjoyed it.  Bring it on.

I did enjoy it actually.  I was shocked at the brutal blocks and takedowns my teammates gave out to our opposing team, and I was shocked at how many players on the other team got escorted off the field by the medic.  And yes, I was shocked that I liked it much more than I actually thought I would.

The only part of the entire experience that I didn't enjoy though was the one point when I looked up and swore I thought I saw one of my brothers.  There was a guy in the stands watching that looked exactly like Bobby-B.  I knew it couldn't possibly be him.  He doesn't know I play rugby let alone know where I'd be in the Philippines on this bright sunny day.  The realization of that though, that no one was in the stands there to support me today, not even Skittles, that was a bit hard to accept.  That part really sucked and making that harsh truth realization while out on the field with the blazing sun beating down on me and my teammates expecting me to be alert and ready, ya, that was a bit of a struggle. 

Whether or not I was good though, that's another story. 

I don't think I was as aggressive as I should have, would have and could have been but I also know I second guessed myself a lot instead of just going for the play.  I played it safe for the sake of not causing my team too much stress with having me on the team as one of their newest members.  I shouldn't have done that though, I now know.  I should have just committed to a play and did it regardless of whether or not I thought it was the right move to make.  You don't learn by playing it safe, you learn by making mistakes.

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